Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Im a muslim girl, hv a long distance relationship wit a polish guy ...

AlicjaK? Threads: -
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hazelquinn, are you the same girl as Mawar? (http://www.polishforums.com/relationships-marriage-36/malaysian-musli m-girl-polish-guy-long-distance-relationship-58585/)
If not, maybe you can help each other too. If yes why do you use two nicknames?

I don't get the idea of knowing someone via net only too. But i know for Muslims it's more common than for us, as it's often difficult to meet normally. And maybe it is possible to get in a close relation that way- who knows?
Unfortunately here it's also very important to find out, how people get along seeing each other every day, dating, before decide to be a couple. Little things can cross relation, but whole life is built from this little things, and they become visible, after the first enchantment goes.
Here young couples live together in one flat to get each other better, which is quite unpopular in Malaysia, right? I wish you luck, but it might be, that for the boy it's necessary before making any declarations. Anyway it's hard to meet if you can't afford Maybe he could try to do his students practice (is it called this way in english?) in the embassy- my friend was in KL this way. Maybe you can both think about scholarships.

Really hard ti say how does he treat relation with you- just be careful, don't get involved too much not to get hurt and disappointed. There is a group of boys who are very attracted by south Asian looking girls, but even if he is one of them still it could be, that he was really looking for Asian girl, but now he likes you for the person you are.
But to be honest- even if he is a good person, 3 months is not much, and i don't think he has serious attitude to your chatting and it's hard to believe for me to love someone you have never met, moreover after that short time. On the other hand- ability to talk is one of the most important things for me in long lasting relations, so if you "just" like talking with each other about anything it might be a good sign.
Anyway, you have too meet and find a compromise between yours tradition of dating etc.

His atheism... i guess it's a big problem to you. Well i'm atheist too, and i'm proud of it. I know, for you it's even worse than being christian or jewish, but i can only ensure you, that you don't have to be religious person to be a good person. If you want to marry him i guess you have to talk about kids in advance, but i suppose now it's to early to think about it. For me, personally it would be a problem to have religious boyfriend (doesn't matter which religion). Are you from shafi'i school of law?
It happens that people convert to their partner's religion, but not very often and i would not expect that. Statistic also say that it's easier for for example Christian to go Muslim than for an atheist. Therefor i would not expect that, but maybe he could convert only in formal way- if that satisfy you, but that's a bit hypocritical.

First of all, speak with him. Ask him, if he feels the same way, what are he propositions. If you want someone else to talk to, or ask somthing about poland feel free to contact me.

Source: http://www.polishforums.com/relationships-marriage-36/im-muslim-girl-hv-long-distance-relationship-wit-polish-guy-63595/

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